If your having problems joining the room and seem to be getting disconnected....Clean out your temporary internet files....that should fix your problem.
Using this chat room is very simple. To whisper someone just add a dot by there name and then hit the ear icon below the user list. This will allow you to whisper them. Once you are done whispering them you will notice there name in a box at the right hand side at the bottom with there name in it. Hit the red x and that will delete there name and allow you to chat again in open chat. To view profiles just put a dot by there name and hit the blue guy icon below the user list. Make sure your pop-ups are turned off. A box will pop up with the users information. Hosts are people with different colored names. Any problems you might have just alert them and they will help solve whatever problem you might have.