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With social media taking over the internet, more and more chat websites are popping up. Some of these have hundreds of chat rooms. It just depends what a person likes to do when using a chat room. Here is some general information about them.
A real chat website will be geared to only chat. This is where a person either pays for a membership for all the features of the site or uses the site for free with basic features. There will be chat rooms designed on purpose for everyone.
There are moderators watching everything in the chat rooms. Anything that is said, if a person is following another person, being mean, and so on will result in action being taken by the site. There could be a temporary ban or a permanent one. This is to insure the chat rooms in the chat websites are safe and secure. Everyone wants to relax and have a great time.
One might be a teen chat room that parents can monitor also. The teenagers can meet with friends after school and hang out. They can help with homework, upload pictures, and music can be shared. Teens can make new friends and make new friends from friends they know.
A lot of chat websites are now using games to socialize. Go choose a game, enter your chat room choice, and start playing. You will see your friends and where they are. You could use that chat room to hang out. Or they can find you and enter the room to hang out and play. A person even can hit a button and go to private chat while playing.
A regular chat website will not have games at all. Just choose a subject to go chat. If you love cooking, there could be ten rooms for cooking. Then, recipes could be uploaded and shared. You could chat live using your PC mic and more. Some of these sites actually charge a subscription just to do this. People will pay and go into a chat room to watch a live video chat of a show. If you missed a show, you just go choose a video to watch to catch up. This is all part of the new way chat rooms are used.
The cool thing about chat rooms is they have gone mobile. If a person is on their phone or tablet, they can log into their favorite chat website and go to their favorite room to catch up with friends and family. This helps with waiting in line and killing time wherever they are.
Businesses are now using chat websites. They know how important it is to connect with clients and other freelancers. Freelancers can exchange ideas in a chat room. They could become business partners and create a worldwide sensation. Connecting with a client and checking in shows the business cares.
With live feeds now being used for chat rooms and more and more games with social networking, who knows what the next big thing will be in chat room websites.
Blonde
I Thought You Said Forever?
Posted February 14, 2013 by Blonde in Personal
What does forever mean to you?
When you couldn’t even keep it true
You said were you’d forever be there
But were those just words pulled from thin air?
Did you actually love me?
Did you really see the feelings I see?
The truth, the love, the loyal tears
The betrayal, hate, and the fear
I thought you felt the same
That you would cover me in the rain
I thought forever and always was forever
But now there’s not an us…never
You said you’d always be there for me
But now I truly see
That you never saw the feelings in my soul
Now you’ve pierced my heart with a hole
But my heart has healed
Now I have friends that are real
And you're gone out of my life
Unable to pierce me with the heartbreaking knives
I thought forever was forever not just a word
But I guess that’s not what I heard…

-Ariel Smith
kirstin ritchie
Portrait of a Personality
Posted December 16, 2012 by kirstin ritchie in Society
The chat room is always bursting with a variety of personalities that represent the essential character of a person as an individual in a group setting.
I came across a personality test recently that was not only loads of fun and also very accurate, so I decided to try it out on all the chatters.
I have been bombarding them with this test that associates a particular personality portrait with an animal. Luckily for me it has proved to be very popular. No one has complained (yet) and everyone seems to be very happy with their results.
If you are reading this and have not yet done the test then beware! I will hunt you down and test you. It is only a matter of time...

The animals are as follows:

POLAR BEAR (Duty Fulfiller) (ISTJ)
The polar bear is strong and determined. They like to perfect their skills and then use them throughout their life. They can spend a lot of time on their own and be perfectly happy while in their own company.

Strengths:
Can work quietly and steadily on something until it is finished.
Like using skills they have learned.
Pay attention to details and like to get the job done properly.
Can follow plans and decide quickly.

As a partner:
They’re usually more practical, loyal and sensible than romantic and spontaneous.

Personality buzzwords:
Practical, loyal annd reliable.

Preferred roles:
Inspector, supervisor, organiser, leader, parent.

Perfect match:
The Lion and the Panther.

Polar Bear chatters: Dropbear, Nemmy


KOALA BEAR (Nurturer) (ISFJ)
The Koala bear likes the security and safety of their families, being loyal and caring to those around them. They can be strong and determined to protect what they believe in.

Strengths:
Patient with people and details.
Good at bringing up relevant facts.
Can be aware of other people’s beliefs, values and strengths.
Popular team members but rarely push their views forward unless asked.

As a partner:
They’re usually loyal, loving and reliable. They go out of their way to support their partner.

Personality buzzwords:
Practical, modest and caring.

Preferred roles:
Protector, inspector, organiser, provider, carer

Perfect match:
The Panther and the Lion.

Koala Bear chatters: Partyguy, Smiley

TIGER (Mechanic) (ISTP)
The Tiger is a rare personality type. They are determined and strong. They can be confident and assertive explorers, enjoying finding out about the world around them.

Strengths
Can work quietly and steadily on a number of things at once.
Can look at situations and make decisions without getting upset.
Can stand up for what they believe in, even if others don’t agree.
Can be flexible and try new ways to get things done.

As a partner:
They’re usually good fun to be with, though may sometimes be too honest with their opinions for their own good.

Personality buzzwords:
Independent, analytical and determined.

Preferred roles:
Explorer, firefighter, performer, operator.

Perfect match:
The Black Bear and the Eagle.

Tiger chatters: Jhaga, Katie

CAT (Artist) (ISFP)
The Cat is popular and friendly despite spending a lot of time on their own. The Cat tends to like exploring the outdoors.

Strengths
Can enjoy what’s going on now.
Can adapt and change their plans.
Can be aware of people’s strengths and beliefs.
Are popular team members but rarely push their views forward unless asked.

As a partner:
They’re usually good fun to be with, though often like time on their own to recharge their batteries.

Personality buzzwords:
Independent, analytical and determined.

Preferred roles:
Performer, promoter, improviser, carer.

Perfect match:
The Teddy Bear and the Dolphin.

Cat chatters: Freshmint, Hoghead, Kylebrad

SEAHORSE (Protector) (INFJ)
The Seahorse can be deep, quiet and imaginative. They can be warm and caring. They value their own and other’s uniqueness.

Strengths:
Interested in the idea behind what they’re doing, especially how it affects people.
Patient with complicated situations.
Solve problems using their imagination.
Can persuade others.

As a partner:
They’re usually romantic and caring and like the same from their partner. They usually come across as deep and intense but can be very funny when they want to be.

Personality buzzwords:
Modest, caring and loyal.

Preferred roles:
Counsellor, adviser, healer, mentor.

Perfect Match:
The Falcon and the Clownfish.

Seahorse chatters: Dennie

SEAL (Idealist) (INFP)
The Seal can be imaginative, supportive and playful around their social group. They are deep and watchful, wondering whether to jump in and trust their instincts or suss out the person or situation first.

Strengths:
Enjoy learning new skills.
Are full of enthusiasm.
Are interested in the thinking behind the idea, particularly how it affects people.
Can work on many things at once.

As a partner:
They’re usually romantic and loving and expect the same from their partner. Can be funny. Can be very sensitive to criticism so be careful how you deliver it.

Personality buzzwords:
Friendly, modest and imaginative.

Preferred roles:
Counsellor, adviser, mentor, advocate.

Perfect match:
The Dolphin and the Teddy Bear.

Seal chatters: Dorkles, Jennie

TAWNY OWL (Thinker) (INTP)
Owls are symbols of intelligence, determination and wisdom – qualities usually shared with the Tawny Owl personality type. They are often careful and quiet, speaking only when they have something interesting or useful to say. When you hear an Tawny Owl speak; it is usually worth listening to.
They are quite rare and therefore easy to misunderstand.

Strengths:
Enjoy learning new skills.
Enjoy solving problems using their imagination.
Like analysing and putting things in logical order.
Can be careful with details.

As a partner:
They usually share their ideas, passions and beliefs. They like trying new things together. They can be very self-critical.

Personality buzzwords:
Independent, analytical and modest.

Preferred roles:
Inventor, architect, creator, engineer.

Perfect match:
The Eagle and the Black Bear.

Tawny Owl chatters:

BARN OWL (Scientist) (INTJ)
Owls are symbols of intelligence, determination and wisdom; qualities usually shared with the Barn Owl. They can seem to be flying high, thinking big ideas quietly, while paying attention to the small details to solve problems and develop plans.

Strengths:
Can be careful with facts.
Can work on something for a long time.
Are patient with complicated situations.
Can be imaginative problem solvers.

As a partner:
They’re usually quite independent but can appear tougher than they really are. They usually like to share their passions, ideas and beliefs.

Personality buzzwords:
Achiever, reliable and analytical.

Preferred roles:
Inventor, organiser, strategist, engineer.

Perfect Match:
The Clown Fish and the Falcon.

Barn Owl chatters: Irisaphylla (me! lol), RocknRolla, Chillpill

BLACK BEAR (Guardian) (ESTJ)
The bear is a symbol of strength and power. They can be strong, taking charge of situations and organising so that things get done. They are a no-nonsense type.

Strengths:
Like action.
Can focus on outcomes and results.
Can act and communicate quickly and decisively.
Are reliable and realistic.

Personality buzzwords:
Loyal, achiever and determined.

Preferred roles:
Supervisor, inspector, leader, protector.

Perfect Match:
The Tiger and the Tawny Owl.

Black Bear chatters: Andee

TEDDY BEAR (Caregiver) (ESFJ)
Teddy bears are warm and friendly. Teddy Bears are often loyal, organised and a bit of a chatterbox.
Teddy bears are popular and widespread.

Strengths:
Friendly, good communicators.
Can be popular team members.
Can act and communicate quickly and without fuss.
Often know what is going on and join in keeping everyone else involved.

As a partner:
They’re usually very loyal, loving, supportive and protective. They provide stability and structure and are friendly and sociable. They like to spend time with groups of friends and family, not just their partner.

Personality buzzwords:
Friendly, reliable and loyal.

Preferred roles:
Protector, organiser, provider, supervisor, carer.

Perfect Match:
The Cat and the Seal.

Teddy Bear chatters: Morbidar, Hidden, wxyz aka Mikey, Bman

PANTHER (Doer) (ESTP)
The panther is a confident, fearless explorer. They prefer action and variety. Can be fun to be with, but can bite (usually with a funny comment!) if things get boring.

Strengths:
Good at on-the-spot problem solving.
Can act and communicate quickly and decisively.
Can stand up for what they believe in even if others disagree.
Can adapt and change plans.

As a partner:
They’re usually good fun to be with. They’re full of energy and ideas. They can be determined and easily become bored – so variety and action keep them happy.

Personality buzzwords:
Flexible, enthusiastic and determined.

Preferred roles:
Crafter, performer, promoter, engineer, explorer.

Perfect match:
The Seahorse and the Polar Bear.

Panther chatters: Scarbone

LION (Performer) (ESFP)
Lions are very sociable. They enjoy being with their families and relatives. For Lions having fun is a way to be close to their loved ones. Lions are graceful and skilful and are often good at sport or leisure activities that interest them.

Strengths:
Friendly, good communicators.
Are good at knowing what’s going on.
Can join in with people with enthusiasm.
Can be generous and popular team members.

As a partner:
They’re usually great fun to be with. They enjoy being with groups of people, not just on their own with their partner. They enjoy socialising. They can be generous with their time and money.

Personality buzzwords:
Generous, caring and flexible.

Preferred roles:
Performer, carer, promoter.

Perfect match:
The Polar Bear and the Koala Bear.

Lion chatters:

DOLPHIN (Giver) (ENFJ)
The Dolphin can be very popular. They are intelligent, warm, with great vision and charisma. They often need to move fast to fit everything in, often enjoying busy and complicated social lives.

Strengths:
Friendly, popular, good communicators.
Can like variety and action.
Can focus on getting the job done.
Can be imaginative, creative problem solvers.

As a partner:
They’re usually friendly, caring and loving. They work hard at making their relationships strong, deep and meaningful.
Your personality buzzwords
Friendly, generous and imaginative.

Preferred roles:
Counsellor, healer, adviser, advocate, mentor, friend.

Perfect match:
The Seal and the Cat.

Dolphin chatters: Firewalker, Blondie

CLOWN FISH (Inspirer) (ENFP)
Clown fish are energetic, creative and busy. They are often thinking of new and clever ways of doing things, preferring variety and action to peace and quiet.

Strengths:
Can get things done at the last minute.
Are full of enthusiasm.
Can persuade others.
Can solve problems using imagination and improvisation.

As a partner:
They’re usually fun to be with. They’re romantic and also like their partners to be romantic. Because they’re easily bored and distracted, novelty and surprise are welcomed.

Personality buzzwords:
Imaginative, enthusiastic and flexible.

Preferred roles:
Counsellor, healer, mentor, adviser, carer, catalyst.

Perfect match:
The Barn Owl and the Seahorse.

Clown Fish chatters: Mechshadow

FALCON (Visionary) (ENTP)
The Falcon can be fast with words and actions, moving quickly from idea to idea and task to task. Falcons often like to try out new experiences. When they speak, falcons are loud!

Strengths:
Can communicate easily.
Enjoy learning new skills.
Are alert, outspoken and interesting company.
Can be imaginative, spontaneous, problem solvers.

As a partner:
They try hard to impress their partner and they’re usually witty and clever company.

Personality buzzwords:
Imaginative, analytical and flexible.

Preferred roles:
Engineer, architect, inventor, creator, advocate, negotiator.

Perfect match:
The seahorse and the Barn Owl.

Falcon chatters:

EAGLE (Executive) (ENTJ)
Eagles are symbols of power, leadership and strength. They often soar high to generate new ideas and new ways to do things. Others are often willing to follow the Eagle due to their good ideas and their determination to make them happen.

Strengths:
Can enjoy action and variety.
Can be imaginative, creative problem solvers.
Can take charge of situations and people easily.
Can provide big ideas for better ways of doing things.

As a partner:
They can be great fun to be with, though exhausting due to their drive and determination to lead and achieve things.

Personality buzzwords:
Determined, imaginative and achiever.

Preferred roles:
Inventor, entrepreneur, leader, architect.

Perfect match:
The Tawny Owl and the Tiger.

Eagle chatters: Begalicious, Roadwarrier
kirstin ritchie
Personality Ditty
Posted December 16, 2012 by kirstin ritchie in Society
I'm a poem about personality
I might try to be witty
Or clever instead
It has gone to my head
I will call it personalitas
And come across as a smartass!
kirstin ritchie
Resurrection
Posted December 16, 2012 by kirstin ritchie in Society
Well well. It has been a long time since I have been here but I am filled with an overwhelming desire to blog again and relentlessly too! So you have been warned. Watch this space!
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