TearsAreFallen
Posted August 20, 2009 by TearsAreFallen

When we visit free chat rooms, it is a normal practice to hide one’s real identity and take on some pseudo names while chatting with others. One of the main reasons for masking our identity in free chat rooms is that we do not want our privacy compromised. We do not want people calling us up for various reasons. We really do not know about the nature of the person at the other end because they too would probably be masking their identity. We can be interacting with a hardcore sales person that is trying to source leads in chat rooms or it can be just a casual visitor who is looking for company.

When you mask your identity you are indeed protecting your privacy. However, you cannot really build long-term relationship dealing with people using false identity. We ourselves will feel phony. This does not mean that you can be careless about your own privacy and security. On the other hand, as a rule of thumb you may conceal your real identity in general and you can choose to reveal your real identity with some selective chat partners once both of you have established trust. This will ensure your personal safety as well as it will also help you build some lasting relationship in the chat rooms.

As we talk of masking one’s identity in chat rooms, we should also remember that we should not give misleading information about ourselves to others. If they take your words at face value, they will be hoping something different to transpire from your online chat interactions. When they learn that they have been interacting with someone entirely different then they can lose trust in you and you will lose a good friend. 

Very often people think that online chats are just for casual pastime and not really for building long-term relationships. Therefore, they think anything will do; they do not really care about with whom they are interacting or what they tell about themselves. Though such an approach will be exciting for a while, you are very likely to get bored after sometime. To avoid reaching such a stage, you should also have some good online chat friends so that you will have some company.

Online chat rooms can be a great source of fun and they will keep you coming back for more. However, you need to get something worthwhile out of your chat room interactions online. So the next time you enter a chat room, try to find a good partner. When you choose to reveal your real identity to someone, you need not tell everything about yourself; it is enough to share some basic details that will help you have a more meaningful conversations.

While interacting with others in the chat rooms, you do not expect the other person to share everything about themselves. You should also learn to discuss some impersonal topics that will keep your chat room interactions exciting.

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Comments
apachemoon wrote at August 21, 2009
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its supposed to say bad start lolol

apachemoon
apachemoon wrote at August 21, 2009
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my personal opinion is when ppl come into a chatroom and they lie about anything makes me question them right off the bat

im not saying spill ur guts and tell me everything but if u start of with one lie whats not to say everything about u is a lie!  i for one understand being careful and protective but when u start off on a bad  foot only sends  the rest of the expirience off to a start.



apachemoon